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Healing your relationship with your adult child was possible—and you had someone to guide you every step of the way? 

Hi, I’m Tina Gosney, and I’m here to help you become the hero of your own story. Right now, you might be feeling lost, overwhelmed, or even hopeless about the state of your relationship with your adult child. The good news is, it doesn’t have to stay that way.

I know this because I’ve been where you are.

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My Journey to Understanding

Back in 2010, I was grappling with the same questions that may keep you awake at night.

  • What did I do wrong?
  • Why does everything I try seem to backfire?
  • Will my family ever feel close again?

The confusion, grief, and frustration were almost unbearable. I wanted answers—needed them, really—but everything I tried seemed to push us further apart. I felt like I was walking on eggshells, terrified of doing more damage but desperate to make things right.

Then I discovered coaching, and everything changed.

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From Conflict to Connection

Through coaching, I found the tools I needed to create freedom and inner peace in my life. I learned how to rebuild relationships—not by waiting for others to change, but by transforming the way I showed up. And as I did, I saw my family dynamics begin to shift.

Was it easy? No. Was it worth it? Absolutely.

This journey hasn’t been without its challenges. As a member of an LGBTQ+ family and a follower of Jesus Christ, I’ve faced my own unique set of struggles reconciling faith, love, and family dynamics. But these experiences have only deepened my understanding and commitment to this work.

Today, I’m proud to say I’ve spent over 30 years as a wife, raised four incredible adult children, and have the joy of being a mother-in-law and grandmother. Along the way, I’ve made plenty of mistakes, but I’ve learned that relationships aren’t about being perfect—they’re about showing up, doing the work, and choosing love over and over again.

Your Story Isn’t Over

The pain you’re feeling right now is real, and it can feel overwhelming.

But here’s what I want you to know: 

You don’t have to stay stuck in guilt, sadness, or fear.

You don’t have to wait for your adult child to change before you can begin healing.

You have more power than you think to create the relationship you long for.

Why I Do This Work

I became a Certified Family Conflict Coach because I believe in the resilience of families and the transformative power of connection. Whether your adult child has pulled away, misunderstandings have driven a wedge between you, or you’re navigating challenges you never expected, I’m here to remind you that change is possible.

It’s not about fixing the past—it’s about creating a future where both you and your adult child can thrive.

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Tina helped me to see things in a new way…a way that made me feel empowered to make a change and hopeful that I could finally solve those problems. Having Tina as a coach was invaluable.

Cindy E

I had tried a couple of therapists, but didn’t get any results. I was taking a lot of antidepressants and anti-anxiety meds. Those helped some, but not enough to help me be happy and productive in my own life. With the models Tina taught me, I was able to take control of my thoughts no matter what the circumstance is, and HOLY COW, that has made all the difference in the world.

Jamie G

My biggest transformation was learning that I have the power to change my thoughts and not stay stuck in the same loops. It was really powerful for me to learn how to move through uncomfortable emotions. Now I feel I can be there more for others instead of withdrawing because I’m feeling anxious.

Amber S

Tina is really good at holding space for all the things I brought to her. She asks good questions and doesn’t judge anything you bring up. I love her calm and loving approach.

Susan A

I am so glad I decided to enroll in this course. Coaching with Tina helped me to recognize my part in the relationship with my daughter. I learned to love more unconditionally, let go of things out of my control and recognize when I was falling into old patterns. After a short time I could really notice a difference in our relationship. As I continue to use the tools I learned, the more I feel like we are reconnecting in a way that we haven’t in a while.

Misty M

I joined this program when my relationship with my daughter felt like it was falling apart. It helped me get back on track, put things in perspective, and stop taking her behavior personally. Reframing my thoughts allowed me to let go of unhelpful expectations and start enjoying her as she is. Tina’s calm, non-judgmental approach, and thoughtful questions made me feel supported every step of the way.

Susan

Let’s Get Started

Healing starts with one step, and you don’t have to take it alone. Whether it’s through practical tools, compassionate guidance, or simply a safe space to process your emotions, I’m here to help you find the path forward.

Your story is still being written, and you have the power to shape it into something beautiful. Let’s make that happen together.

Are you ready to begin?

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